Feeling unfulfilled? It could be because of this

So many of the women I speak to at the moment are feeling:

  • Stuck
  • Unfulfilled
  • Unmotivated
  • Lacking their spark
  • Disengaged
  • Stressed
  • Blah

Can you identify with this?

It breaks my heart when I hear things like this as I believe many of us are settling for less even though we were made for more, and this may include YOU. 

What do I mean by 'made for more'?

Well, you have been given a unique set of character strengths and have developed a set of core values over time. You may feel the things above when you're not using your signature strengths, and your life is not currently aligned with what you hold dear {your core values}. When you utilise/live by these things, you feel the exact opposite of the above and live a life filled with MORE: 

  • Joy
  • Motivation
  • Connection with others 
  • Feelings of making a difference
  • Doing what matters
  • Accomplishment
  • Engagement
  • Happy 

Would you like MORE of these things? 

Take heart as they are not out of your reach...

You may be in a valley at the moment, in a pit, wandering in the wilderness, living a life that is less than your best, but there is hope as this does not have to be your future.

When you work to your God-given strengths, and live by your core values, you CAN experience the emotions listed above.

Consider the following scenario:

"I feel most fulfilled, happy, and engaged when I am using my character strengths of 1. humour, 2. spirituality, and 3. love. 

So how do I use these strengths daily? Well, yesterday I brightened a girlfriend's day with a little bit of well-timed laughter {humour}, I spent some time in prayer {spirituality}, and I went to a friend's house in the afternoon to help her with her job application {an act of practical love}. It was a good day, and I went to bed last night with a content and happy heart"

So, what are your strengths beloved? What do you hold dear and value in life? And are you seeing evidence of these things in your life right now?

If not, you're not alone. SO MANY WOMEN don't feel the positive things listed above, and that's what I'm here specifically to help with. That's my calling - to help women get unstuck and start flourishing in LOVE ~ CAREER ~ LIFE.

Will you let me help you? 

If so, take some time today to think about your strengths - you can do this by reflecting on the last time you felt as though you were on top of the world, when you were THRIVING and answering the following questions:

What contributed to you feeling this way? 
What were you doing? 
What strengths were you utilising?

Futher to this, spend some time reflecting on what you value in life. You can get an idea about this starting with the following questions:

What gives your life meaning?
If all else fell away, as long as you still had X, you'd be ok
What do you stand for?

Once you can answer these questions you're well on your way to knowing your strengths, working out how to use them regularly, and what you can do align your everyday life with your values.

"Yeah right, sounds good in theory but I don't even know where to start"

Did this just run through your head? Lol, if so you're not alone in that either! It's really common to not know where to begin to get 'unstuck' as there is layer upon layer of complexity involved. 

So how about you start with us having a chat? You can schedule a complimentary 30 min call with me here. I've set aside some time in my calendar specifically for these calls as I believe they can guide you in the right direction of what you can do to start FLOURISHING in LIFE ~ LOVE ~ CAREER.

I'd love to talk to YOU beloved - you are unique, special, and made for more, and I want to help you find what 'more' can look like for you.

Talk soon!

With love + joy
Cath xo

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P.S. The scenario mentioned above was mine {if you couldn't tell lol!}
P.P.S. For those who like to skip to the bottom, here's the crux of the message: you don't have to settle for less anymore. Book a call with me to talk about your strengths and values, and what you can do to life a life of MORE so you can flourish in LOVE ~ CAREER ~ LIFE.

Catherine Doocey